Our Single Season

Single Ladies & Gentlemen alike!!

The same God that showed you where the provision was for your business; what state to move to and where the new house was going to be; what car dealership to go to; or which school to send your children, because you want them to have the best education possible and so much more; He is the same God that knows who your future mate is and when the SEASON is for you to meet that person.

First, God is not surprised that we desire to be married. He is the God of Covenant, so He understands. God is concerned about everything that concerns us. We too, yes, us Singles; we are important to God. Just like He knows the number of hairs on our head; just like He knows our length of days in the earth; He knows everything about us which includes our desire to be married.

It is during our SEASON of Singleness that we get to work on ourselves – Our attitudes; how we handle money; our credit scores; past trauma; building businesses; going back to school. We learn what we like and dislike about ourselves. I might add though,  it’s also during our Singleness that we learn how to be spiritually intimate with God in prayer, the Word, worship, growing in faith and obedience and much, much more. As we spend more time with Him, our focus is not on, “God, where is my mate?”

When we embrace our Singleness, we don’t speak negatively against it. We find joy in it. We recognize there are things we can do now in this SEASON, that we might not get to do when we’re married. Don’t allow your emotions to lead. Use your faith over feelings. Yes, I know it’s a challenge, but this is where you teach you learn to master your flesh (Feelings). It is in those moment that the flesh wants to lead that it must be given the word consistently. This is why it’s so important to have the word in your heart so you can apply it to every situation that arises.

A gentle reminder, you are accepted in the beloved. God loves you with an everlasting love. His love is kind and patient. Our Father’s love is so deep and excessive that we can’t hide from it. You are validated and affirmed. You are ENOUGH!

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